Why we Choose those who Don’t Choose Us.

Elephant Journal
Mindful Love, Loss, & Lust
4 min readApr 11, 2024

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Love is a choice.

I’m convinced that a profound conviction lies beyond emotions, sexuality, and attraction. Not only that we love who we love, but also that we choose to do so.

However, we oftentimes find ourselves choosing people who don’t choose us back. How often have we obsessed about someone who rejected us? How many times have we tried to make a…

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Elephant Journal
Mindful Love, Loss, & Lust

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